-before getting married, the girl parents as the man do you know how to gambling.
-reply the man: no
-after married, the man always lost money in playing card. the girl parents as again why you said you don’t know how to gambling when you always lost. you are telling me a lie.
-Reply the man: no, i am telling you the truth. if i know how to play card well, i will never lost.
lesson learn: the question is very important. actually, if you think, playing card is for fun or for gambling, either way you are right. know yourself well, know your partner well, so that the success is surely achievable.
the real is, i know i will fall when i stand still, but i will walk one more step forwards, and fall down. because, i will not fall in the same place. and i learn some different.